It is so very hard isn't it just take it day by day, acknowledge the fear but try not to service it too much, easier said than done I know. I wish I'd spent more of DD's pregnancy enjoying it, and not being so convinced for the most part that something was wrong, but hindsight is a wonderful thing, especially now she's safe in my arms. And I'm sure I'll have all the same fears throughout my next pregnancy if I'm blessed enough to have one. Extra scans will only reassure you while they're being done, then the worries creep back in once you wake the next day, or even later that day Don't be afraid to pour all of your love and trust into the amazing life that is growing within you PZ